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Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.

--Oscar Wilde


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Merhaba means Hello in Turkish. Turkish is a phonetic language so everything is pronounced the way they are written. Once you learn how each letter in alphabet is pronounced, no spelling is ever needed.

It feels like spring is already here. I don’t know if I should be happy because I love spring or sad because the climate is getting warmer abnormally. Most of you must have seen “The Inconvenient Truth”. It is Al Gore’s documentary about the global warming. He is traveling the world to create consciousness about this alarming news. Scientists have been talking about it for years and those who don’t want to understand ignorantly state” Experts have talked about this for years and nothing happened” disregarding what is currently happening.

The new generation is angry with us. They have every right to do so. Unfortunately most human beings measure the TIME with themselves forgetting that life on this earth continues after their bodies leave. This “MY TIME” mentality leads to disrespect to the resources of the earth and loss of abundance through contamination and extinction.

It seems to me the earth needs a lot of tapping after all the trauma it has been going through. I think the Set Up Phrase will be something like this:
“Even though I have been feeding, nurturing, entertaining, sheltering, nourishing, holding onto-gravity- the human beings; and most of them have been destroying each other and every resource I provide to them; I choose to believe that more of them started to pay attention and see the TRUTH. I choose to forgive them and still give them as much as I can last.”


I love your emails to me. They are signposts to the content of my newsletters and eGuideBOOKS.

When I announced the title of two March books, I received many responses for the title GET OVER and HEAL FASTER AFTER DIVORCE- How Your Environment and Things Can Work With or Against You after Divorce.” So, I gave priority to that one. Now that title is available for purchase through my website. Because of the renovations on my website and my house, I didn’t get to finish the other two titles that I promised: BRING THEM OUT of THE CLOSET! - Using Memorabilia to Uncover and Heal Past Hurts and “Feng Shui for Real Estate”. So;
“Even though I was not able to finish the books on the date I promised to my readers, I deeply and completely accept myself. I love myself for letting life happen and other priorities take place. I accept myself for not hurrying and getting it done. I celebrate myself for not getting frustrated or angry; and being able to enjoy the little extra time I had with my family.”
   TAPPING Tip of the MONTH

I found tapping while I am getting ready in the morning very easy, fun and effective. Right after I wash my face at the bathroom sink, I start tapping for my intentions of the day while looking at myself in the mirror. I also tap for the qualities I would like to improve or have. Because I am looking into my eyes while doing that, my intentions become my promises to myself. I have been tapping for “I am very patient and compassionate” and I have been seeing a big difference in my behaviors.


Things to be Grateful for:

For the wife who says it's hot dogs tonight,
Because she is home with you,
And not out with someone else.

For the husband who is on the sofa being a couch potato,
Because he is home with you
And not out at the bars.

For the teenager who is complaining about doing dishes
Because it means she is at home,
Not on the streets.

For the taxes you pay
Because it means
You are employed.

For the clothes that fit a little too snug
Because it means
You have enough to eat.

For a lawn that needs mowing,
Windows that need cleaning,
And gutters that need fixing
Because it means you have a home.


Comments about FREE MANUAL “Clearing Clutter with EFT”
Australia, UK, India, Saudi Arabia, Various US States, Turkey, Sudan are some locations the emails are coming from.
....Thank you for the manual, which I am going to use as an aid to getting my life back from the clutter. I spend my time working hard, and being a parent to 4 kids is time-consuming. But I know my life would be richer without the MESS.....

Dear Figen
Thank you for this wonderful service......                                          

......I can't believe how lucky I feel to have found something like this book. I have been untidy all my life, my mother punished me quite severely often, but it never seemed to make a difference. I am now 58 and my house is so bad, untidy, cluttered and in need of a major clear out, but there is something inside which I cannot name that prevents me. I am desperately lonely but will not allow anyone near my house because of how ashamed I am of how we live……

.....just read your manual on EFT and de-cluttering!!!!!!!!!!! Just what I have needed--have kept procrastinating and doing I have it, EFT to overcome any challenges &/or emotional blocks which disempower me.

thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!

divine timing.....YOU ROCK!!!........

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TAPPING Tip for the MONTH for Real Estate Professionals

“Even though these buyers drive me crazy with their constantly changing criteria and not being able to make up their minds, maybe if I concentrate on trying to help them figure out what exactly they WANT rather than what they think they NEED, I might save myself a lot of research and trips to the homes that they don’t really care for. I forgive myself for getting frustrated with them. They are doing a huge purchase and they are afraid to make a mistakes. So, rather than being impatient with them at the house hunting, if I spend more time with them at the office, we might come up with a better plan. I love myself for seeing this. And I love my clients who helped me learn this the hard way.”

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